The fun and friendly parties for the 40+ crowd!

Coming to one of our parties is  probably the best way to improve your social life in a hurry!

it's Coming....


The Fabulous 40+ SINGLES PARTIES


The Handlery Hotel,  950 Hotel Circle N.,  Mission Valley, 92108



The 40+



24 Hr hotline;  (760)S-I-N-G-L-E-S

                                   Dave is host                                                      



The Best 40+Singles


The big Gala will be at the popular

Handlery Hotel

950 Hotel Circle North (right right across  I-8 from the Doubletree)



on Sale at this low price

Through -> DEC 24

Cash price - $49.95  (or Credit Card / mail w/$2.95 svc.chg.)


The Beautiful Garden Ballroom and also the Outdoor Patio for  private, intimate conversations;  Served will be Carved  Ham & Turkey  with cranberry relish, rolls and more! Those tacky Hats, horns & blowers that we all hate, but wear them anyway,  and just a Fun Crowd and the dance floor will be full all night!  Great DJ and  great dance music; (Old to New, Mild to Wild, Rock to Romantic, Salsa to Swing, and Latin to Line dances - something for everyone!)


 $500 in Door Prizes;  Champagne Toast at midnight;  The best fudge brownies on earth; Gourmet coffee & decaf about 12:30 & probably the most fun, friendly New Years party anywhere for the 40+ crowd  and, YES, we provide ->FREE PARKING, too!


Everyone ordering tickets before Dec. 24 will  also receive a FREE TICKET to our first party in 2017 - Sat. Jan. 14 at the DoubleTree!


A limited number of hotel rooms  at the Handlery are available for $119.  

You MUST tell them that you are with the 40+SINGLES PARTY for that rate.  619-298-0511

REMODELD Motel 6,  2424 Hotel Circle N.  is $99.  (619) 296-1612

For other hotel rooms,  visit   

and now....
40+ SINGLES ...
at the early, low price of only
---> order or purchase
by DEC 24
1) By Mail
2) In person
3) By Phone
Tickets will also be availble after Dec 24 and at the door.
(price after Dec.24  yet to be determined)
1.) BY MAIL - Send a check  postmarked by DEC 19
Payable to
San Diego Singles Parties
 4203 Genesee Ave, #103-155
San Diego, 92117
$49.95  (+ $2.95 svc. chg) = $52.90 per ticket
Your name and address & PHONE must be on the check.
2.) IN PERSON-meet Dave
at the 4 Points Sheraton (lobby)
8110 Aero Drive, 92123
(just about any day from 12 noon-1pm) (possibly from 6-7pm, depending on the day)
 (760) - SINGLES
$49.95  (+ $2.95 svc. chg. if using credit card)
3.)  BY PHONE, using a 
credit card or Pay Pal.
Call Dave: (760)S-I-N-G-L-E-S
11am - 8pm,  7 days a week
If I'm not available, please leave your name & number  VERY SLOWLY, (and repeat it) and the best time to return your call.
   You can text your name & phone number, but
$49.95 + $2.95 svc chg.  
Tickets will be available after Christmas & at the door,
at a price yet to be determined, but higher than $49.95 for sure!
in San Diego!



If you have any suggestions for a North County (club) party location,

 please let us know!




Take an easy scroll down our site & see what's interesting

~ The Schedule & Upcoming Special events!  (above)

~ What they are saying about the parties!

~ Have Your Birthday Party at our Party! 

~ Business Networking at  our parties!

~ About the 40+ Singles Parties!

~ Get on our mailing list!

~ The "Top Ten"

~ We are "WEDDING PLANNERS"!  Let us know if you met at our party and are getting married!

~ Find a wife for Dave!   $1,000 cash reward (finder's fee)!

~ Sponsors and Friends !



"Hi dave. Thank you so much for your effort to make the New Year's Eve party so nice for us!

The food and ambiance was great!

You went all out with the party favors, champagne,  give-aways and decorations.

 Just wanted to let you know I appreciate it. Have a great New Year.



"You can post this in the internet, if you chose to use it!


I am new to San Diego, and have been attending since November 2013.


The music is the best and the men attending usually a lot of fun!!


Everyone at the front desk is very helpful!!


Luz Marina Villarreal"



"I went to your Valentine's Day party Friday night, and I was surprised - almost shocked at

how many people were there,  and almost  an even number from both sexes! I danced all night!

Susan D.


"Came to the Doubletree for my first party, but the woman at the front desk wouldn't let me in because I was wearing jeans and a nice sweatshirt - a real nice one.  I poked my head in and saw a big crowd in the room - so I decided to go home and change!  Glad I did!  You had a lot of hot women there!  All races too - White, Asian, Black, Hispanic.  It was like the United Nations, and a wide variety of ages, which I liked also, even though I was younger than most.  Everyone socialized with everyone else!  Well worth the few bucks to get in and definitely well worth going home to change!  I'll know better next time!"



Smelly Party !

'Valentine's Party...very nice party, but there was an awful smell in the room when I first arrived..... Dave and the DJ kept telling everyone that it was just something about a burned out bulb. It was bad!  Permeated the room, and even the lobby downstairs.  I was about to leave, but after a short while it seemed to disappear.  Good thing that I remained, because I met a nice guy and at the end of the evening he took a rose off the table and gave it  me.  I'm out of town on business for a couple of weeks, but we are going  to meet there at the next party. The party  really ended smelling like a ROSE!"

Elena W.


As host of the parties,  I like to ask people how they are liking the night.  Most comments are about the music.  On this one occasion,  I asked two ladies (girlfriends) who came to the party together, how THEY liked the music.  First one didn't like it - she said  that the DJ plays too much OLD music.  The second  wasn't happy either- she said that he played too much NEW music!  ...and then they began to  laugh and "argue" about it between themselves!  ha,ha!  Funny - but absolutely true story!

It's the strangest thing... ya know - you just can't please everyone, but I try,

So, let ME know if there is music that you'd like to hear!  :>)




If your EXACT birthday falls on the EXACT date of our party,

we would like to make you and up to 3 of your friends, guests at the party!

(yes, complimentary admission for you and your friends)

... and you will receive a bottle of the finest vintage wine (2016) to take home!  ;>)

Just call us or send an email as soon as you know that you'll be coming to the party.

Please contact us by the day before the party at the latest,

The birthday person's name will be the (secret) password for the complimentary admission.

You will  be asked to present a driver's license (or facsimile) showing your actual birth date.

That's all!

So, on your birthday, come and have your party at our party!

*Note; If your birthday is on Dec 31, (New Years) we will make YOUR admission complimentary,  but  we can not comp friends.


Business Networking

If you have business cards or brochures for your service, business, profession, or hobby -

you are welcome to bring them to a party and we will gladly display them

on our reception table.

(we reserve the right not to display any cards that we feel are inappropriate)




  We are the parties that everyone has talked about in San Diego since the 90's and then again back  since 2010!

As your host, I try to make the parties fun, comfortable, reasonably priced, and conducive  to meeting new people. I am more interested in giving you a great experience, and good value, rather than how much money I can get from you at the door!

When you've come to a few parties, you'll feel like you're coming to "CHEERS", where everyone knows your name"!

The parties are geared for men and women generally around the 40's & 50's some younger and some older attend.  Anyone near those ages will feel comfortable.  All are welcome!

We always have one of our popular DJ's, who will try to play as many requests as possible;

Except for special parties such as New Years Eve, the admission is always cash at the door.  NY Eve we take reservations w/  credit cards.

Dress code for MEN: stylish - No jeans, t-shirts, sports hats, flip flop, sweats etc. (Women always look good, so no need to mention:>)

 The cash bar also includes a variety of non-alcoholic beverages.

So, come to the fun, friendly parties, where you're sure to meet some wonderful people!





(if link doesn't work, please just send a regular email)

We will gladly include you on our VIP email list to receive advance updates & special discounts!


~The Top Ten List ~

Do's & Don'ts at a party ...

Having put on over 3,000 dance parties for single adults,  I have noticed some things  that people should do and should not do if they REALLY want to have a good time and meet new people. See how many sound familiar....

1) Have a positive attitude, be sociable, smile a lot, & come to have fun with no expectations!

2) Place yourself where the action is;  closer to the dance floor, or closer to the bar area. Don't hide in corners!

3) Women - do not congregate all night with a group of other women - especially sitting. Try walking around by yourself or with one other woman. It's much less intimidating for a man to ask you to dance if he doesn't have to do it in front of your entire group. (and with the fear of possibly being rejected.)

4) "When you see an (interesting) stranger across a crowed room", be sure to flash a big smile!  A smile is probably the most inviting and welcoming gesture that you can legally make! ;>)

5) Whether or not you're having an alcoholic drink, keep a glass of something (water, juice, soda, virgin drinks) in your hand anyway - it looks more sociable...especially men -  otherwise you will be free to cross your arms or stand with hands in your pockets, both of which give off negative body language and are very uninviting positions!  Make yourself look like you are IN the party and not an OBSERVER - put something in your hands.

6a) Men - do not hesitate to ask women to dance just because you think that she might refuse. Most women will absolutely dance if asked.

6b) Women - do not hesitate to ask men to dance just because you think that he might refuse. Most men will absolutely dance if asked.

6c) Similarly, if you'd really rather not dance  with someone - just say ''no thank you".  If you say something like,  "maybe later " or "not right now" - it's guaranteed that that person will come back later

7) If you came by yourself, don't hesitate to socialize with people of the same'll be surprised how many new friends you'll make, and after coming to the parties,  our parties almost become like "Cheers", where "everyone knows your name."

8) Don't allow yourself to get tied down to one person all night if you don't really want to. You might say something like "I've enjoyed talking with you, and I now I'm going to mingle for a while".

9) We have tons of great music so, please do make requests of the DJ or your host.

10)  Men... One of the my "Laws of attraction" is that  - the sharper you dress, the more women will be attracted to you

 Some of the above may sound corny, but only YOU can determine if you'll  meet people and have a good time, so - GO FOR IT!



You are getting Married? 


Did you meet at a 40+ Singles Party, and you are getting married?  Please contact me, because if you would like to have your wedding  ceremony,  right, smack in the middle of our singles party, I will provide  everything below for the big event! We will stop the party to have your wedding ceremony in front of  up to 500 of your "closest friends"!



~The Ceremonial Room or Hall

~ The music by our very popular DJ - (request your special songs)!

 ~ Flowers for the bridal party! (certain limits here) !

~ Free admission for your guests (up to 25 free)!

~and even your wedding night in a beautiful guest room at the hotel!

and possibly more!

So let me know!




24 Hour recorded party schedule & info

(760)S-I-N-G-L-E-S        (760)746-4537




and collect $1,000.00 cash reward *

 a finder's fee!  (recompenesa en Espanol)!

(above 2015)

As the host of the 40+ Singles Parties, and being single myself, I don't feel

that it's appropriate for me to approach a woman at a party for a date -

after all, she is my customer.

(of course, I am open to a woman approaching me for a date!  ha, ha!)


Because of this unusual situation that I find myself in, I have developed a website for myself -

At my website, you will notice that I am actually offering a

a reward of $1,000 cash, - a "finder's fee",  (recompensa, en Espanol),

for the person who introduces me to (or is directly responsible for me meeting) the woman that I marry*

So, check out my website,,

and especially the YouTube videos on the site!

Good luck to all of us....

(and I'll just keep that cool $1,000  in the bank, drawing no interest at all,  until you find Ms Right for me!)



1)  Reward does not apply for introducing me to a woman at a party that I  host or  a woman who has been to one my parties, or a woman that I have already met in the past.

2)  The "finder" who  sends or introduces me to the woman, must identify him or herself  to me by EMAIL within one week of me meeting or being introduced to her.   (Purpose:   so that if (and after) I marry the woman, a person can not then claim that THEY were the one who introduced us.< in order to claim the reward! > Fair is Fair!)

3)  Reward is in effect if you see it here and on my website,





Boys & Girls Club of San Diego

4635 Clairemont Mesa Blvd

San Diego, Ca   92117

Donations accepted!





A great gag gift

from $19.95  + s&h

~ for an Over-the Hill Birthday

~for a gag Anniversary gift

~ for Trick or Treat Halloween "gift"

~for April Fools' Day

for any occasion where someone beats you (at tennis, cards, or their team beat yours, etc)




____________________Thanks for visiting The 40+ SINGLES PARTIES and come back soon and often!______________





*2016 SERVICE MARK APPLIED FOR The 40+ SINGLES PARTIES!  Singles in San Diego,  The Young Executive Singles Network , (The Y.E.S. Network of San Diego), Eligible in San Diego, The 30+ SINGLES PARTIES , and CLUB 40Something, CLUB 40+SINGLES,  CLUB 30+ SINGLES ,are all registered service marks and all rights are reserved 1992 -2016
























 The fun and friendly parties for the 40+ crowd!

Coming to one of our parties is  probably the best way to improve your social life in a hurry!


The 40+


(760) S-I-N-G-L-E-S   (24 hr hotline)


                                   Dave is host                                                      



 Grand Ballroom, 8-12mid.  (doors open 7;30)

1515 Hotel Circle South, 92108

...the party is in the Grand Ballroom pictured just below the "Doubletree" sign.

The 40+ parties just keep getting bigger and better, partly because we are more interested in you having fun and meeting new people, and less interested in grabbing a lot of your money!  We try to make the parties fun, comfortable & conducive for you to meet new people, all at a ridiculously fair cover  charge!
So, If you really want to dance or just start meeting new people, you'll  be at a party soon!
..And Ladies,
you can feel perfectly comfortable coming by yourself, as many do, or certainly come with friends.  People love it at the Doubletree!

 ~NEW FACES:   -  Bring a friend(s) who is a NEW PERSON to the 40+ Parties, or if  you haven't been to a 40+ Party in 2016, just show this paragraph on your phone or tablet or bring a printout, and you (and your friend<s>) will GET IN FREE before 9pm!  (after 9pm the New Faces discounted admission is $10)!

~ More Great Party Features ~


 ~The ambiance of the Grand Ballroom at the beautiful Doubletree by Hilton!

~ Meet, Mingle and dance or just meet and mingle with a great "international" mix of up to 300 interesting Single men and women.

~Ages mostly 40-60...  some younger and some older.... but all are welcome!

~ Large Dance floor that will be jamming all night long!

~ Great DJ with all the music that you love, from Old to New, Rock to Romantic, Swing to Salsa &Latin to Line Dances


~ $200 in great prizes 

~ FREE PARKING! (saves you $5+?)!

~ CHOCOLATES at the end of the evening!

~Fresh roses on the tables!

~Friendly bartender, hostesses, and of course host!
~Scenic view of the lights in Mission Valley!
The 40+ SINGLES PARTIES are the parties that all of San Diego is talking about NOW!
Admission:  $15,  or  $12 before 8pm (doors open at 7:30)
Special Admission:   Military with I.D.,  FREE ALL NIGHT!
a few party picts...

The Doubletree Parties are great!



"Last party at the 4 Points Sheraton, in July,  was HUGE!

  The BIG  PARTY this weekend is


in the night club;    8-12mid.  (doors open 7;30)


People say that our 4 POINTS SHERATON parties

are the best "Nightclub"  parties for Singles 40+!

Best for DJ!

Best for Ambiance!

Best for Fun & Friendliness!

Best  for  Hostesses  (and Host)!

Best overall value for the cover charge!

Best atmosphere for adult singles to meet new people!


Best and most comfortable party for people attending for the first time!



Friday Night Fever - Catch it... at the


8110 Aero Drive, SD, 92123


The nightclub of the 4 Points Sheraton has been the hottest party location on a Friday night  for the 40+ Singles crowd! 

 Last two parties there were huge - almost 200 attending!

~Party features~

~A great "international" mix of single men and women around 40-60... some younger & some older, but all ages are welcome

~ A Dance floor that will be packed all night long!

~ Our High Energy DJ with all your favorite dance music, from Old to New,  Rock to Romantic, Swing to Salsa, Latin to Line Dances & your requests are taken seriously - SERIOUSLY!  :>)

~Fresh roses on  the tables!   

~ Complimentary, yummy chips!

~ Appetizers & dinners available at reasonable prices during the party!

~Friendly bartender  and hostesses, and of course your host, too!
The parties just keep getting bigger and better, partly because we are more interested in you having fun and meeting new people, and less interested in getting your money!  We try to make the parties comfortable & conducive for you to meet, all at a ridiculously fair Admission cost!
So, If you really want to dance or just start meeting new people, you'll be there!
And, at these parties, it's a better strategy to come earlier, rather than later!
Oh, And Ladies,
you can feel perfectly comfortable coming by yourself as many do, or certainly come with friends.  It's a very non threatening atmosphere, and   I or one of  our friendly hostesses would be glad to introduce you to  a few people if you'd like, and answer any questions that you might have!
HOPE TO SEE YOU AT FRIDAY NIGHT AT  4 POINTS - it's going to be another  great night!